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Six right of a muslim upon a muslim |
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Written by Mohammed Z Islam
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Thursday, 26 August 2010 15:10 |
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RIGHTS OF A MUSLIM UPON A MUSLIM |
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Allah's Messenger
(peace be upon him) said: "No one of you shall become a true believer
until he desires for his brother what he desires for himself." (Bukhari)
Surely the best way for us to please our brother is to place him high in
our estimation and do for him what we would like for ourselves. The
Prophet gave us comprehensive direction on how to sustain brotherhood. He
said: "There are six rights of a Muslim upon a Muslim:..." |
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when you meet him,
greet him;..." |
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With a warm smile, a
friendly face and As-Salaam Alaykum is the best way to meet a brother. We
must avoid picking and choosing whom we confer this basic
right upon. All Muslims regardless of their social status and position in
society should be afforded this "gateway" into our personal space. The
Salaam is the best of icebreakers as it immediately brings down the
barriers that we unconsciously erect around ourselves to shield us from
alien invasion" |
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when he invites you,
respond to him;..." |
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When a Muslim brother
invites you to a celebration, you are obliged to go,even if he didn't
attend the Eid celebration you had last year. Accepting an invitation for
a wedding celebration or the naming of a child is about sharing in the
joys of a brother as well as joining with other Muslims in a social
gathering. |
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when he seeks counsel,
give him advice;..." |
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When a brother comes to
you with a problem, seeking advice, give him what he requires even if it
means that you are undermining yourself in the process. Remember, you
desire the best for him, don't you? Be sincere in your advice.
Never take what has been told to you in confidence to another person
except to demonstrate a point; even then, his identity must not be
disclosed or alluded to. |
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When he sneezes and
praises Allah,say to him: May Allah have mercy on you (Yarhamuk-Allah)'..." |
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When a Muslim sneezes,
yawns, lets one go, or even when he trips and he remembers to praise
Allah, we must respond to him with a prayer for Allah to have mercy on
him. If we find a brother either negligent or ignorant of the need to
praise Allah in all things, then we must set him right as far as his
responsibility to himself and to others. The lesson is: praise Allah in
all condition and
appreciate the one who does this! |
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when he is sick, visit
him... |
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When you go and visit a
sick brother, take a small gift along with you that will help lift his
spirits. If you are unable to afford a gift, then ensure that you go armed
with
words of encouragement and hope from the Qur'an and Sunnah. Don't be put
off by the fact that the brother is much more learned than you - you are
there to lift his spirits, not to compete against him. Pray for him and
let him pray for you too. |
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And when he dies,
follow his funeral..." |
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Attending the last
rites of a brother is of utmost importance. Speaking well of him and
seeking forgiveness for him will ease his condition in the grave with
regards to questioning, bliss and punishment. Upon following him to the
grave, one should now not turn his back on (abandon) him. Not abandoning
him after his death is to take care of his families, remembering him in
du'aa regularly, and doing sadaqah (charity) on his behalf |
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Last Updated on Saturday, 06 November 2010 15:21 |